Parents need to prepare themselves for frank discussions with their children about substance abuse. Part of this preparation includes a self-assessment to determine their own beliefs and values. The following reflection questions provide some food for thought.

Sample reflection questions from A Parents' Guide to Substance Abuse Prevention


Topic: Limits
Under what circumstances do you find setting limits for your child easy or difficult?
What do you do when your child resists or disagrees with limits?


Topic: Communication
What issues do you feel comfortable talking about with your teen?
What issues are difficult?
What issues do you avoid?


Topic: Maturity
How will you decide if your child is mature enough to handle risky situations?


Topic: Consequences
Have you discussed the connection between alcohol, drugs, and sexual activity with your child?
Given all the reasons for teens NOT to use drugs, alcohol, or tobacco, which reasons are the MOST IMPORTANT to you?
. . . to your child?


Topic: Parental strategy
If you suspect your child is using drugs, what would be the first thing you would do?
What would you want other parents to do if they knew your child was using drugs, tobacco, or alcohol?


Topic: Parental beliefs
How do your feelings about alcohol, tobacco, and marijuana differ from drugs such as cocaine or LSD?
How do you make informed decisions about the use and misuse of medications and supplements?
How will you discuss your concerns about illegal drugs with your child?